THE MEASURE OF OUR LOVE



THE MEASURE OF OUR LOVE

How many ways can we show our love? We can show it with gifts like candy, cards, flowers, or flowery words. Scripture doesn’t mention any of these. How we show our love to God can be summed up in two words: obedience and action. How we show love to others can be found in I Corinthians 13, the Love Chapter, and in many other verses. This love too is active. The following excerpts from scripture help us know how to show love to God and others:

LOVE:
Is patient and kind;
Does not envy, does not boast;
Is not proud, rude, or self-seeking,
Is not easily angered;
Keeps no record of wrongs;
Does not delight in evil;
Rejoices with the truth;
Protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres;
Is sincere;
Builds up;
Carries the burdens of others;
Does no harm;
Is extended to enemies;
Helps a needy brother;
Comes from a pure heart;
Is in your walk;
Is in your talk;
Abounds in knowledge and insight;
Bears with one another;
Lasts for a lifetime;
Lives in God;
Is united;
Binds compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience and forgiveness together in perfect unity;
Is shown in action and truth;
Is deep – from the heart;
Covers over a multitude of sins;
Drives out fear;
Gives us confidence on the day of judgment.

--Becky Wall

TRUE LOVE


TRUE LOVE

Love is neither the art of words,
Nor a great display of emotion,
Not merely gifts and promises;
It is action with devotion.

Love’s words are always caring,
Showing honor and respect.
There are no strings attached to gifts,
And promises are always kept.

Rooted in commitment,
Words alone cannot suffice,
For love is deep and constant,
Shown with time and sacrifice.

Becky Wall


MORE THAN 50 WAYS TO LEAVE YOUR LOVER


Note: Since I am female, this was written from a woman's perspective. 

You've heard of the song, "There Must Be 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover." Well, if you really want to get rid of your girlfriend or wife, guys, here's more than 50 ways to do it, but none is in the song and you won't have to leave; she will.
  1. Crack jokes at her expense.
  2. Make sure she walks behind you.
  3. Talk over her loudly when she states her point of view.
  4. Don't offer her any encouragement in her endeavors.
  5. Don't be on the same spiritual plane with her.
  6. Be clingy; smother her by not giving her her space.
  7. Expect her to cook for you though you're not married.
  8. Bully her.
  9. Belittle her.
  10. Call her demeaning names.
  11. Make her feel like less of a person than you.
  12. Always point out her faults. Look for them. Create them.
  13. Control her. Tell her where she can and can't go, what she can do, what to think, how she should act, when she can talk and to whom.
  14. Never buy her gifts on her birthday, Valentine's Day or at Christmas. Remind her on Mother's Day that she's not your mother. Let her know how unappreciative she is of the cleaning product you bought her months before.
  15. Drive your vehicle in a way that she is constantly afraid when riding with you.
  16. Make her take her car everywhere so as to save yourself gas and wear and tear on your car.
  17. Remove the belt on the car's A/C so she can't use it. Tell her it's to save gas.
  18. Twist her words; make something ugly out of much of what she says.
  19. Don't be concerned with her comfort or safety.
  20. Spend as little as possible with her so you can spend more time on yourself.
  21. Always think of yourself first.
  22. Use her in any way you can to benefit yourself.
  23. Make her pay for her own way -- and yours if you can get by with it.
  24. If she doesn't give you your way, guilt her, goad her, overpower her, smooth-talk her -- whatever it takes.
  25. Make fun of her friends and family and anyone else that might get you a laugh.
  26. Never think of others or do things in a way that might better other people's lives.
  27. Don't bother being courteous. It's old-fashioned.
  28. Have no tolerance for children.
  29. Flirt with other women.
  30. Have an affair. Leaving her is a piece of cake then. It might not be the way you planned, though.
  31. Take on an addiction: drinking, gambling, pornography, etc.
  32. Don't bother with hygiene. It's manly to stink.
  33. Claim all money for yourself. If you do have joint accounts, run up debts that will be impossible to pay. Then when you leave her, leave the bills to her. 
  34. Live beyond your means.
  35. Be a miser. Begrudge every penny you spend on her and the kids, if you have any.
  36. If you are married, let your wife raise the kids. 
  37. If you are married, don't help with anything around the house.
  38. Lose your temper over every little thing and curse alot.
  39. Keep your girl confused and guessing about what's really going on in your life. Live a double life.
  40. Lie to stay out of trouble. Lie even when there's no need. Stand firm on your lies; they become truth to you.
  41. Be deceitful.
  42. Have no trust in her and don't give her any reason to trust you, though you want her to.
  43. Don't take her anywhere special.
  44. Don't make time for her.
  45. Don't spend money on her.
  46. Withhold affection.
  47. Embarrass her often.
  48. Shame her over every little thing.
  49. Make her feel stupid.
  50. Don't compliment her.
  51. If you are married, don't worry about her health if she needs to go to the doctor, because doctors are just in it for the money anyway and you don't want to give them any of yours.
  52. Gripe every time you have to do something for her.
  53. Make her fear you.
  54. Make her feel like everything she does is wrong.
  55. Put your fun activities or hobbies ahead of her.
  56. If you are married, let her bring home the bacon, then go golfing, fishing, hunting or involve yourself in sports, even if it is to just watch.
  57. Make sure she's not happy.
  58. Tell her how to dress to suit you, even when she is dressed modestly.
  59. Never comfort her. Tell her she's just using her tears to win an argument.
  60. Taunt her until she cries, then laugh at her for being so sensitive.
  61. Harrass her until she is shaking all over, then wait out her silent treatment until she comes around again. Never ever say "I'm sorry."
  62. Never say good things about her to other people in an effort to build yourself up or make others feel sorry for you.
  63. Don't say "Hello" or "Good-bye" when you come and go and certainly don't plant a kiss on her when coming and going.
  64. Don't communicate with her except to find fault. 
  65. Walk away when there's an unresolved problem, change the subject, or make a joke about it.
  66. Don't let her build any confidence in herself. If she starts to, tear her down quickly.
  67. When she gets a chance to better herself, sabotage it. 
  68. Tell her she's fat and/or ugly, even if she isn't either one.
  69. Separate her from her family any way you can.
  70. Tell her she could never make it in the world without you.
  71. Don't let her get in the way of your sports obsession.
  72. Don't spend time with the kids, if you have any.
You may be free of her a whole lot sooner than you anticipated. As another song goes, "You don't know what you've got until you lose it."

Becky Wall

HISTORY OF LEE CARTER MAYNARD

Lee Carter and Nellie Maynard, 1957

I wrote the following in 2001 while a student at St. Louis Christian College. I knew of Mr. Maynard from his weekly meditations, "Memories of the Master," which appeared in The Christian Standard issued by Standard Publishing Company. But there is much more to tell about his life than that.I attended church with Mr. Maynard's grandson and his wife.

History of Lee Carter Maynard,
a Latter-Day Restoration Movement Leader
By Becky L. Wall
           
Lee Carter Maynard’s name was a household word among the members and leaders of the Christian Churches and the Instrumental Churches of Christ during the years 1952 to 1985. He was known best through his weekly column in the Christian Standard, “Memories of the Master” and through his widespread, dynamic preaching. His column ran weekly for 33 years, his preaching spanned 60 years, and he authored ten books. But the best that can be said about him is that he loved the Lord with all his heart, soul, strength and mind and his neighbor as himself (Matt. 22:37-39).

His many “neighbors” included readers of the Christian Standard column. The Christian Standard is a Christian Church/Churches of Christ magazine that has been serving the nation’s Christian Churches and Churches of Christ since 1866 (North 238). Maynard would have had much influence writing a weekly column for this publication for thirty-three years. It was established long before the non-instrumental Churches of Christ split from the collective church body in 1906 and before the Disciples of Christ later did the same in 1926 (North 323). The periodical’s influence covered all three brotherhoods: The Christian Church (conservatives), the non-instrumental Churches of Christ, and the Disciples of Christ (liberals). 
           
Lee Carter Maynard’s weekly column, “Memories of the Master,” was scripture-based and the outpourings of a loving heart. Those readers who maintained their subscription to the Christian Standard would have been blessed by the content--no matter what brotherhood they came from. His readers came to love and respect him through his column.  L.C. Maynard’s communion meditations all display two common aspects: his own devotion to God’s Word and his desire to help others understand the glorious riches he had found there.
           
Most people who read the Christian Standard prior to Maynard’s death in 1985 still vividly remember his column. L.C. Maynard’s grandson, Steve Maynard, says of his grandfather, “He never seemed to run dry of inspiration” and his communion meditations were “also a service to the countless churches that used the column as devotions before their communion services." Lee Carter Maynard has a book by the same name that keeps his “memories” alive.    
                                                                                                                                
Because Maynard “rubbed elbows” with and captured the interest of other Restoration leaders such as James Deforest Murch and Carl Ketcherside, and because he occasionally preached for the non-instrumental Churches of Christ, his column and his preaching crossed the great divide that had occurred with “the split” of our once unified churches. But his greatest contributions to the Restoration Movement is that he won hearts with his loving approach and built spiritual bridges anchored in God’s Word. He never paused to think that he was living out the plea of the Restoration Movement. Yet he was familiar with its principles. He once commented in an interview that “Any right-thinking man is embarrassed that the restoration movement is so sadly fragmented--not over what the Bible declares, but what men have done contrary to peaceful assembling. Our divisions are caused more over works than because of grace and faith” (Hess 6).
           
In the same interview he was asked what elements of tradition in the movement needed to be challenged and modified. His answer was, “Some of us need kid gloves, not boxing gloves. Let’s never get the idea that it is our duty to correct, criticize, and contradict those who might not quite see things ‘our way’” (Hess 6). Maynard was just a few weeks short of his eighty-ninth birthday when he participated in this interview, yet his wisdom was not lacking.
           
Maynard was indeed a bridge builder between denominations. His first challenge in bridging the gap between the Christian Church and non-instrumental Churches of Christ came when he went to his future father-in-law, Edward Schlieper, to ask for Nellie Schlieper’s hand in marriage. Her parents were from a non-instrumental congregation. When Maynard asked Nellie’s father for his daughter’s hand, Schlieper’s response was that they should not be unequally yoked. Maynard replied, “Mr. Schlieper, I’m a believer.” That reply suited his father-in-law, so Lee Carter Maynard and Nellie Schlieper were married February 10, 1918 (W. Maynard interview). Ironically, Nellie served as pianist for many revivals that Maynard conducted (S. Maynard interview).
           
Lee Carter Maynard’s speaking spanned sixty years, many states, and over a hundred churches. He baptized many into the kingdom of Christ. His most rewarding experience came at his first revival in a small Christian Church in Loraine, Illinois. He preached his most successful revival at a Christian Church in the 1920’s. The sanctuary overflowed with people and thirty were baptized (Hess 5). He was not drawing a salary, but he was doing what he loved most, and God rewarded him for it.
           
William Maynard says his father’s preaching theory was that more people could be won with love than with browbeating. This may explain why Lee Carter Maynard was welcomed as a visitor and occasionally as a substitute preacher in non-instrumental Churches of Christ. When he served in these churches, usually on a one-time basis, he would simply follow Paul’s plan to “do as the Romans do.” He would adapt to each church’s form of worship so the doctrinal message would not be lost to differences in worship styles. 
           
Maynard had attended the Christian Church from age 15 until he got married, but he became a member of his wife’s non-instrumental church in Pearl, Illinois, because he thought she had more religion than he did (autobiography 29). He began to realize his calling while teaching an adult class at the non-instrumental church. He would at times preach at instrumental churches who asked him to “fill the pulpit.” 

But word got back to their home church that he was preaching and baptizing in the Christian Church and his wife was playing the piano (Hess 5). The preacher blocked their entrance into the church, then sent the Maynards a letter saying they had been “churched,” meaning they had been excommunicated from the church. Maynard’s response to that was recorded in the Christian Standard: “No longer welcome ‘in our own country,’ we moved and attended a Christian Church” (Hess 5). The piano issue was not an issue to them. Their focus was on weightier matters. The congregation did not agree with the preacher’s actions however, so when the preacher left, the family returned to the non-instrumental Church of Christ. This time it was not the preacher but the congregation who made the Maynards feel unwelcome because they were continuing their service to other churches.                                                                                                                                               
Ironically, their son, William, would one day be baptized at a non-instrumental Church of Christ by a Church of Christ preacher, but only by chance. He had gone forward to be baptized at the Loraine Christian Church in Loraine, Illinois, but the baptistry was not ready. So William Maynard was baptized down the street at the Church of Christ where the baptistry was ready. Lee Carter Maynard maintained a long friendship with his non-instrumental Church of Christ ally Carl Ketcherside. This friendship dated back to the one-room schoolhouse where Maynard taught and Ketcherside was a student. They visited each other’s churches frequently. Steve Maynard says, “Grandpa would tease Mr. Ketcherside about his refusal to sing when a piano was used during worship--but he would hum!” From 1967-1975 Maynard penned fifteen articles for the Mission Messenger, a non-instrumental Church of Christ publication edited by W. Carl Ketcherside (Mission Messenger website).
           
The greatest influence L.C. Maynard had on the Disciples Movement was to lead the Angola Christian Church, which was technically a Disciples of Christ congregation, into the more conservative views of the Christian Church/Church of Christ. On another occasion he joined with a Disciples professor from Phillips University in Enid Oklahoma to field questions from the audience in an open forum before and after revival meetings in Wichita, Kansas. (W. Maynard interview).
           
Understanding the Bible and how to apply it to one’s life was Maynard’s focus in his ministry. It was not focused on controversies or divisions. By Providence or by chance, his path in life allowed him opportunities to cast his influence through his writing and speaking gifts, and that path occasionally crossed denominations. Before his contribution to the Restoration Movement can be fully appreciated, the man must first be known.

Lee Carter Maynard’s life began on January 12, 1893, in Pearl, Illinois, which was in Pike County. He was the first of three sons born to William and Emily Carter Maynard. Maynard was first influenced by his grandfather, a circuit-riding preacher who was, by L.C. Maynard’s description, “an old-fashioned restoration preacher who never preached without his long, black preacher coat” (Hess 4). William Maynard says his great-grandfather rode a white horse and sported a long, white beard. L.C. Maynard described his grandfather as “being against more than he was for.” Lee Carter took a more positive approach in his preaching style without sacrificing the theme of obedience.
           
A prominent Christian Church evangelist named Jesse M. Bader immersed Lee Carter Maynard when Maynard was 15 years old. As was mentioned before, he married his wife, Nellie, on February 10, 1918. Shortly thereafter the army drafted him to serve during World War I. He could not do active duty because of a lame foot and was in the service less than a year.  William was born in December of 1918, and Robert was born in 1921.

His working career began at the Third National Bank in St. Louis, Missouri. After earning a teaching certificate by passing a teaching exam, he taught five years of elementary education, all eight grades, in a one-room country school south of Pearl, Illinois. He taught two additional years, 5th and 6th grades, in town. As mentioned before, one of his students in the country school was Carl Ketcherside. Maynard began to successfully sell Metropolitan Life Insurance in 1927, which he did for several years. But he wasn't happy in the business; his heart was in preaching. 
           
He began his ministry in 1932. Even before he took a located ministry, he preached wherever the insurance position took him. He and his family moved from Pittsfield, Illinois, to Quincy, Illinois. They then spent one month in Hannibal, Missouri. During this time Maynard held meetings all over western Illinois. 
           
His first revival in which he got paid was at Loraine, Illinois (autobiography, “After-thoughts” 4). His first located ministry was from 1934-36 in Bowen, Illinois. It was there that he was ordained (Pike Press). He received an average of $13 a week from offerings as his salary. From Bowen he went to Colchester, Illinois, where he served seven years. He served three additional years at Camp Point during World War II (autobiography 31-32). In the fall of 1945 he took his family to Angola, Indiana, where he ministered for four and one-half years. His final located pastorate was in Astoria, a small town in west central Illinois. He retired from there and went back to evangelistic work for about seven years. Sometimes Maynard preached in meetings or at camps, homecomings, and civic organizations. Other times he served as interim minister for a longer period of time (W. Maynard interview).
           
After his retirement in 1961, L.C. Maynard became a circuit preacher in his own right, preaching his way from Illinois to St. Petersburg, Florida, where he spent the winters, and preaching his way back again to Illinois for the summers. His “circuit” included over 70 churches. He authored ten books in thirty-four years (Pike Press). The Christian Standard said of him, “He knew that the best way to destroy your enemy is to make a friend out of him. Regardless of what people might have done to him he wouldn't stop loving them” (10/27/85). Maynard had no known enemies, but he did preach in churches with opposing ideas. He avoided the dividing issues and simply preached the gospel in love.

In 1964 he went to St. Petersburg, Florida, where he continued evangelistic work until 90 years of age. He never really retired until his death. His column continued until the end of the year even after he died in September, since he always submitted his writings ahead of time. He spent much time in prayer and Bible study especially in his later years of life. He died in St. Petersburg on September 2, 1985, at the age of 92 where he had been in the Veterans Administration hospital for six months. His entry into the hospital ended his 60-plus years of ministry. The Christian Standard revealed in its October 27, 1985, issue his dying words, as recorded by his daughter- in-law, Harriet, who is Robert’s widow: It went as follows:

            “Good night, precious Lord. I love you for all you have done.”
            “I am thine, oh, Lord!”
            “Holy, Holy, Holy, Lord God Almighty.”
            “Good night, holy Father.”
            “Turn me loose, Father.”
            “Come, Lord Jesus.”
            “Oh, what a victory.”
            “There’s a sign, Harriet . . . do you see it?”
            “It’s a sign board.”
            “What a victory, what a victory--Amen, Amen!”
            “There’s a bright light, hallelujah!”
            “The light is in my eyes.”
            “I love you, Lord, and I love the fellowship.”
            “Am I all done, April?”
            “Yes, Gran-Paw.”
            “Well, let’s go!”

Lee Carter Maynard was buried in the Greenpond Cemetery near Pearl, Illinois, where he grew up (Pike Press). Nellie Maynard died a year after his death.

Maynard had enjoyed a close relationship with his wife. She not only contributed to his ministry by playing the piano or leading the singing at revivals, she served as his memory for details. She was always quick to recall names and places when her husband drew a blank. Lee Carter considered his wife his “best friend, companion, and encourager” for the 60 plus years they were married (Hess 6).

He had lived a full and spiritually productive life, but his life was not without tragedy. A traumatic experience in his life compelled him to go into the ministry. He had broken his ankle and gangrene set in. The doctor wanted to amputate the lower portion of the leg. Maynard prayed that he would not lose his leg, and vowed to God that if he were allowed to keep it, he would enter the ministry. God granted the prayer, and Maynard kept his vow.
  
A great tragedy occurred when Maynard’s son, Colonel Robert Maynard, was killed September 26, 1969, at the age of 48 in an airplane crash while on a mercy mission delivering food and medicine to Biafra (Pike Press). He left behind a devoted wife, Harriet, and three children. Robert had held the distinguished title of Colonel in the Air Force, the branch of service from which he retired. One of his greatest honors was to accompany President Eisenhower to South America. He was the chief meteorologist on the presidential jet and was with the presidential entourage for four weeks (Pike Press).                                                                                                            
By God’s mercy, Bob’s body was found by a young priest who witnessed the crash and gave him and the four other pilots who also died in the crash a Christian burial. The family was able to meet with the priest a year later when he was sent to the town where they lived, St. Petersburg, Florida. Lee Carter Maynard’s daughter-in-law, Nadine Maynard (William’s wife), with tears in her eyes and a choke in her voice, reminisced that when her father-in-law was told by his minister, Curt Hess, of his son’s death, he simply turned to him and said, “We must give thanks in all things. We need to pray, Curt.” Curtis Hess served at Central Christian Church in St. Petersburg, Florida (Christian Standard 10/27/85). He authored an article about Maynard that was published in the December 20, 1981, issue. The article was called, “An Hour With Lee Carter Maynard.” 

L.C. Maynard was called by some the “Will Rogers of the pulpit.” He was a good story-teller, used many illustrations, and never used notes. He had a quick wit and was very animated and demonstrative in his delivery of a message. His daughter-in-law, Nadine, says that he waved his Bible around in his left hand so much that she wondered how he kept from throwing it away. She also remarked that he had so much scripture memorized that he would appear to be reading from the Bible and would, after reading a while, find he had been holding it upside down. By Maynard’s own confession in his autobiography, this was a technique he used to keep people’s attention. He was very humble about his calling and always felt he was without sufficient training, so he compensated by memorizing scriptures and poems and using such attention-getting techniques to make his sermons more interesting (autobiography, “Afterthoughts” 7). L.C. Maynard’s grandson Steve Maynard says, “He had a folksy, affable way of presenting the Gospel to an audience that both encouraged and admonished listeners.”

The statement was made to Maynard, “Would you share with me your favorite part of the Scriptures?” Maynard’s response was: “I once took a course in Genesis and found it so interesting that it became my favorite book. Then later I fell in love with Matthew, then Ephesians. But now, I have no favorites. It’s sort of like asking a father of six children to name his favorite child” (Hess 4).                                                                                                                                           
Lee Carter Maynard was not only remarkable because he wrote a weekly article for thirty-three years, but that those years extended into his 90’s. In addition to "Memories of the Master," he wrote a booklet during World War II called The Helping Hand and a book with doctrinal subjects called Leaves of Life. Maynard retired in 1961 and had three more books published after that. A book of Old Testament Quizzes was published in 1969, and two other books were published in 1973. One was called Points that Emphasize and the other was a book of 52 Worship Services with Sermon Outlines. He also authored little thoughts called “The Church Mouse” that he included in the church bulletin. He is credited as the author of “Fireside Fun,” but family members are not aware of whether it is a book or a series of articles. He wrote a book called Musings from the Margin which was about what the title suggests--his own musings from his own marginal notes from Bibles, books, journals, and other writings he kept through the years.

His legacy continues through his son William and through other family members. “Bill” had a pulpit ministry for 26 years in Columbus, Illinois. During those years he served as Principal of Augusta High School; Augusta, Illinois, and as Superintendent of the Brown County Schools in Mt. Sterling, Illinois. He considered his ministry to be his primary job. He thought of himself as a “tentmaker” who earned a living so that he could be free to preach and still support himself and his family.

Bill Maynard served as Dean of Students at St. Louis Christian College for seven years and acted as interim president for one year. He then became Vice President for Business Affairs for seven years and taught classes. After serving the college for a total of eleven years, some of his jobs having overlapped, he retired on June 30, 1986. At the current age of 81 he remains active in “taking his turn” teaching Sunday School at Halls Ferry Christian Church in Florissant, Missouri. William’s son, Steve, chose to carry on his grandfather’s legacy by setting up a writing scholarship in his name at St. Louis Christian College. Steve too enjoys writing. Among his many recognitions, Lee Carter Maynard received an Honorary Doctorate from Atlanta Christian College in 1973 and was honored as Churchman of the Year at the North American Christian Convention in 1984.
   
The December 20th, 1981, issue of the Christian Standard that featured an interview with Lee Carter Maynard said in the Editorial of the same issue, “It is appropriate that we feature an interview with Brother Maynard in this issue of Christian Standard. . . For many of our readers, the 'Memories of the Master' column can truly be described as 'Precious Memories'.” 

Ironically, one of Lee Carter Maynard’s last published “memories” contained scripture from Luke 10:25-27 that begins with the question: “Master, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?” The answer is, “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbor as thyself.” Throughout his life Lee Carter Maynard had done just that. Another of his last articles ends by saying, “. . . there’s a great day coming by and by.” For Lee Carter Maynard that day has come and will continue forevermore.

Becky Wall


Thank you to Steve Maynard, grandson of Lee Carter and Nellie Maynard, who provided the photos of his grandparents.


Works Cited

Hess, Curt.  “An Hour With Lee Carter Maynard.” Christian Standard.  Dec. 20, 1981:  3-6.
Maynard, Lee Carter.  Mission Messenger.  “Author Index, Vol. 32,” 1967-1973, 29 April 2000. 
www.mun.ca/rels/restmov/texts/wcketcherside/mmm/authors.html
“Lee Carter Maynard” obituary.  Pike Press.  3 Sept. 1985 (day estimated).
“Lee Carter Maynard” obituary.  N.A.C.C. Update, Vol. 11, No. 6.  June/July 1983.
Maynard, Lee Carter.  Autobiography, never published.
Maynard, Lee Carter.  “Christmas 1969.”  Personal letter.  Dec. 1969.
Maynard, Nadine.  Personal interview.  19 April 2000.
Maynard, Steve.  Personal question-and-answer interview in written form.  26 April 2000.
Maynard, William.  Personal interview.  19 April 2000.
SLCC News.  “Maynards Retiring."  1986 (month and day unknown).  p. 3.
Christian Standard. “Memories of Lee Carter Maynard” editorial.  27 Oct. 1985.
“Son of Lee Maynard Assigned to Pres. Eisenhower’s Plane.”  Pike Press.  Sept. (day             unknown) 1969  

A DEMON CALLED PORNO




A DEMON CALLED PORNO

I am a demon called Porno.
Among powers and principalities I rank high.
A host of fallen angels serve me;
We answer to the father of lies.

Few know that I am addictive;
I’ve hidden my secret well.
I’ll torture mankind on earth,
Then finish the job in hell.

I display my images across the screens,
Of movies, videos and tv.
On the pages of books and magazines,
To be viewed in secrecy.

I prey on young boys; they’re a delicacy to me--
Young men for whom God has a plan.
I’ll lure each with shock, seduce him with pleasure,
Suck his life, and leave the shell of a man.

I sit on a throne, crowned in great splendor,
And with spiritually dead bones pick my teeth.
But when knees hit the floor, my power is no more.
Thanks to Christ, whose crown was a wreath.

Becky Wall

See also: https://beckyowall.blogspot.com/2022/10/lustful-and-perverse-thoughts.html




CHRISTMAS: DON'T HESITATE TO CELEBRATE



What does God think about the way we Christians celebrate Christmas? Does He frown on the commercialism or decorations? Should we allow Santa to be part of our Christmas? These are things many if not most Christians contemplate during the Christmas season, at least to some degree. What does the Bible say about Christmas?

In a word: nothing. We aren't even sure as to the exact day Christ was born. The only real celebrating that occurred at His birth was done by the angels. But they did celebrate with song. It was an occasion worthy of celebration, more so than any event that has ever occurred in the history of the world other than His resurrection after being crucified. 

There were many festivals that were already being celebrated by the Jews at God's direction. The occasion of the birth of the Son of God is an even more worthy occasion to celebrate, even if the exact date is not known. It stands to reason that Christ would be pleased with all the songs of praise, the focus on His birth through skits and manger scenes, the prayers of thanksgiving for God's gift to us, and the love and kindness that is shown to others at this time of the year. These are things He is pleased to see year round. It is when the focus shifts from Christ to other things that He would be displeased.


I hear people complain about the commercialism of Christmas, and I have done my share of complaining, but there are many businesses that survive the rest of the year on what they make at Christmas. In other words, Christmas is part of the survival of our economy. When we purchase gifts, we are helping our brothers and sisters keep their jobs. However, Christ should be included in this system without being exploited. And our attitudes should never be gimme, gimme, gimme.


The wise men brought gifts to Jesus and God gave His Son to us. Our giving is in response to their examples. In reading through the book of Esther I came upon a passage that says, "That is why the rural Jews...observe the fourteenth of the month of Adar as a day of joy and feasting, a day for giving presents to each other." (The city Jews celebrated, also, but on the 15th.) The Festival of Purim was a celebration of the preservation of the Jews from the intended annihilation that had been planned for them. Gift-giving was part of that celebration. Being prompted to give is a good discipline for all of us. Also, since we traditionally give birthday gifts, why not do so in honor of Christ's birth?


So, where does decorating fit into Christmas? Many of the items that we put on the tree have religious meanings behind them, including the tree itself. The evergreen tree is a symbol of everlasting life. The bells represent church bells that ring in celebration of His birth. Even candy canes were designed to represent his pureness (white), and the red stripes represent the suffering He endured and the blood He shed. The star, of course, symbolizes the star that the wise men followed and the lights represent Jesus, the light of the world, and we His disciples, who are to let our lights shine.


I personally struggle with including Santa at Christmas. Others do not and I respect their choice. The idea of Santa originated when a saint began giving gifts to the needy. This is certainly honorable. But many times Santa gets more glory than Christ, especially with children. This is for each of you to work out with God, as is everything else I have written. I hope I have given you something more to contemplate.


However we choose to celebrate Christmas, let's keep this festival festive. Let's join the angels' chorus. Let's be as wise as the wise men were in our own giving. It is a birthday party, after all. I say, "Let's celebrate!"


Becky Wall

Having said all that, and in hindsight, now 11 years later, I have a few more verses to add for you to contemplate. 

Isaiah 1:14 - Your New Moon feasts and your appointed festivals I hate with all my being. They have become a burden to me; I am weary of bearing them.

Amos 5:21 - “I hate, I despise your religious festivals; your assemblies are a stench to me.

Lamentations 1:4 - The roads to Zion mourn, for no one comes to her appointed festivals. All her gateways are desolate, her priests groan, her young women grieve, and she is in bitter anguish.

Lamentations 2:6 - He has laid waste his dwelling like a garden; he has destroyed his place of meeting. The Lord has made Zion forget her appointed festivals and her Sabbaths; in his fierce anger he has spurned both king and priest.

Hosea 2:11 - I will stop all her celebrations: her yearly festivals, her New Moons, her Sabbath days—all her appointed festivals.

Nahum 1:15 - Look, there on the mountains, the feet of one who brings good news, who proclaims peace! Celebrate your festivals, Judah, and fulfill your vows. No more will the wicked invade you; they will be completely destroyed.

Zechariah 8:19 - This is what the Lord Almighty says: “The fasts of the fourth, fifth, seventh and tenth months will become joyful and glad occasions and happy festivals for Judah. Therefore love truth and peace.”

Evidently the festivals were being ignored and unattended. God was acting out his anger on the people for abandoning the festivals that God Himself ordered. They had, in essence, abandoned Him, also. That's when he allowed them to become captives in Babylonia. When the people turned back to Him, He prompted them to return to their fasts and festivals.

In looking at the big picture, bringing the concept of it to today's world, are we headed the same direction as the Hebrew people in abandoning anything and everything associated with God/Jesus? I walked through a couple of stores this week, one of which claims to be Christian, and there was no sign of the nativity or religious ornaments. This was years later than when the above was written. The big draw was Santa and the Grinch. They certainly get more attention than the story of Jesus's birth. The religious Christmas music had stopped. That all makes me think God may turn His anger on us. Are we loving truth and peace and praising Jesus for coming to earth to die for us to save us from our sins and eternal fire, or are we loving Santa, the Grinch and presents? Something to think about.

A TREE IS TRIMMED


A
TREE IS
TRIMMED
It’s Christmas
and the tree is trimmed,
as laughter fills the air.
A tree was trimmed for Christ
one day and He was crucified there.
Lights shine bright upon the tree;
our little lights also should shine. We are lit by
the light of the Son, Jesus Christ, your Savior and mine.
A star is hung like the one in the sky so the Savior the
wise men could find. Wise men now search the scriptures for Him;
those who don’t to His presence are blind. Candy shaped like the
staffs of shepherds who first heard the news of His birth, are striped
with red, like the stripes He bore; He’s still the greatest news on earth.
Bells ring in celebration of the One who without a cry, traveled a road
from the crib to the cross; God’s Son was born to die. Gifts were given
to Christ at His birth, and God’s gift of His Son should please us,
yet Santa gets glory as the great gift-giver,
But Santa
too bows
down to
Jesus

Becky Overturf Wall



BAPTISM IS MORE THAN GETTING WET IN CHURCH




BAPTISM IS MORE THAN GETTING WET IN CHURCH

What is baptism? Baptism is preceded by a public confession of true faith, belief and repentance followed by immersion in water for the forgiveness of sins and a receiving of the gift of the Holy Spirit, which was offered by the Lord Jesus Christ as stated in Acts 2:38.

Baptism is a New Testament commandment. It is a symbolic "burial" in water in recognition of Jesus death, burial and resurrection. Through baptism sins are washed away and the new creature in Christ receives the gift of the Holy Spirit. Scripture compares baptism to Noah's ark: "In it only a few people, eight in all,were saved through water, and this water symbolizes baptism that now saves you also—not the removal of dirt from the body but the pledge of a clear conscience toward God. It saves you by the resurrection of Jesus Christ, who has gone into heaven and is at God’s right hand—with angels, authorities and powers in submission to him" (I Pet. 3:21-22). 

God cleansed the earth of sin by burying in water the people who were blatantly sinning, but they didn't rise again from their watery grave. Noah and his three sons and their wives were the only ones saved. We who are baptized for the forgiveness of our sins will rise again to a new life. "We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life" (Romans 6:4). The choice is ours: rise or remain dead in your sins.

Baptism should be acted on immediately after coming to the full knowledge of your sinfulness. You should desire to make your conversion known to others. The need to act quickly is shown in all of the conversions in the book of Acts: Paul, the jailer and his family, the eunuch to which Philip preached, the 3,000 that were baptized after hearing Peter preach on the Day of Pentecost, etc. Procrastination just gives the devil time to talk a person out of being baptized or to put hurdles in the way. The sooner a person receives the gift of the Holy Spirit, the better.

Baptism is necessary for Jesus to fulfill all righteousness. Matthew 3:13-16a says, "Then Jesus came from Galilee to the Jordan to be baptized by John. But John tried to deter him saying, I need to be baptized by you, and do you come to me?" Jesus replied, "Let it be so now; it is proper for us to do this to fulfill all righteousness. Then John consented." We are to follow Jesus's example. Also note that Jesus was likely immersed because the next verse says, "As soon as Jesus was baptized, he went up out of the water."

Baptism is an act of obedience. Obedience is stressed throughout the Bible but the obedience should be because we want to please Christ and not because we feel like we have to. After Jesus had died, risen, and ascended into heaven, Peter preached a sermon which grieved the hearts of the listeners. When he was finished, the people asked what they must do to be saved. Peter's response was, "Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit" (Acts 2:38). This requirement comes with a prized gift from the Lord Himself, that gift being the third part of Him, and who helps us throughout life as long as we don't permanently push Him away. He cannot co-exist with ongoing sin.

Baptism requires humility, a giving up of the pride that prevents a person from going forward to confess and repent in front of others. Vanity must be overcome in order for a person to be willing to get his or her hair wet in front of people. Those who are uncomfortable with being the center of attention must overcome that fear or any other fear long enough to fulfill this act of obedience.

Baptism is understanding that we are unworthy of the price Christ had to pay for our salvation, for His forgiveness of our sins, for the riches we will acquire in heaven and a realization that He loves us that much. "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God... (Romans 3:23). It is a way of acknowledging that "I get it now, Lord! Here I am; use me."

Baptism becomes void or meaningless if not followed by true love for Christ shown through our actions and obedience, notwithstanding the fact that we are still going to sin on occasion.

If our attention to the Lord ends with our baptism or if we are baptized with the wrong attitude or for the wrong reason, we would still be lost sinners -- just wet ones. Baptism done just for show, such as to win the heart of a Christian girlfriend or boyfriend, is not true baptism. Getting baptized just because friends are or just to get to participate in taking Communion are wrong motives.

A transformation is to occur when baptized. That transformation involves a complete turnaround from our sinful and selfish ways of the past and a striving to become perfect as Jesus was perfect, though that goal will never be altogether accomplished. Jesus was the only one who was, is and ever will be perfect. Though that is the goal, the transformation will not happen overnight. It takes time, discipline, obedience, a change in attitude and thinking, love for the Lord and others, and much prayer. "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – his good, pleasing and perfect will." (Romans 12:2) Since all have sinned, it was necessary that Jesus die to cleanse us of our sins. Sinners could not enter heaven but Jesus made a way when there seemed to be no way. He took our sins to the cross, buried them in his grave and rose again. We symbolically do the same through baptism. Therefore, one need not despair when that person is caught in Satan's throes.

Baptism is a commitment to love as Jesus loved.

After baptism we are to follow Christ's teaching and example in our behavior and speech. "Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth" (I John 3:18). "But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips" (Col. 3:8). We are to walk by the spirit. "The fruit of the spirit
 is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law." (Gal. 5:22-23 NIV) The King James Version of the Bible translates forbearance as patience. That rolls off the tongue easier when trying to memorize that verse.

Baptism is accompanied by a hunger to find out in His Word what He wants us to know and do. We start with the milk of God's Word and move on to the meat of His Word. Too many spend their lives floundering in the milk. They misuse verses and struggle to quote any. They rely on the preacher's sermons to educate them without ever studying the Bible. They never grow as Christians. They become stagnant or even fall away; perish the thought.

Baptism creates an excitement that makes the person want to shout from the rooftops how it feels to be free of the burden of sin. The cleansed person has a desire for others to find this freedom. That excitement has a ripple effect in that others witness the happiness that comes with being made pure by Christ and want that in their lives. They too want to be free from the chains of sin that bind them. Even the home is happier.

Baptism is the forming of a close bond or relationship with Jesus and a desire to talk to Him in prayer. God talks back through His Word. He doesn't answer prayers that we don't pray. He is not a God who "cracks the whip" to make us love Him. Our love for Him and others must come from the heart.

When baptized, you are adopted into the family of God. As a family member you will have the benefits of a family member and will be loved, cared for and offered an inheritance, an eternal home in heaven. Our Father in heaven is like the father in the Bible story of the prodigal son and will welcome us home even in our filth. The Father, Son and Holy Spirit are eternal. He (the three-in-one) will never die. Neither will we if we confess our faith, repent, are baptized, obey Him and have a father-son/father-daughter relationship with Him from then on. A relationship with Christ compares to a relationship with your earthly father but on a deeper level.

Becky L. Wall

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GET DOWN WITH YOUR BAD SELF


GET DOWN WITH YOUR BAD SELF

No, I am not telling you to dance -- yet. As a matter of fact, what I am suggesting will bring you longer-lasting and deeper joy than dancing. But before the joy comes pain, for my suggestion is, if you haven't already done so, get down with your bad self, not in a cool dance step, but on your knees in a spirit of brokenness. Humble yourself before God and confess your sins. Promise to give up those sins. Offer God your life to use as He sees fit. Free yourself of the heavy burden of guilt that weighs you down each day. Experience the peace that only Christ can offer. See "The Light" at the end of the dark tunnel through which you are now traveling. Let yourself feel the pain. Then you can "dance with the joyful" (Jer. 31:4,13).

--Becky Wall



A MEASURE OF SUCCESS


A MEASURE OF SUCCESS

          The world measures success by great sports achievements, becoming famous in the arts, and by widespread recognition for acting or musical talent. Good looks seem to bring success to those so blessed. These are all what I call Hollywood standards of success that often come with Hollywood values. Then there's the usual measures of wealth and power. But at what price does this "success" come? By forsaking the Lord and family? By compromising moral values?

          True Christians measure success much differently. Proverbs 23:4 says, "Do not wear yourself out to get rich; have the wisdom to show restraint." Christians have their sights set on heaven. Others do not have the same goal but are in the race, nevertheless. Their lack of interest and, therefore, lack of preparation and participation will disqualify them from the prize.

          Paul, the special apostle who suffered so greatly for the Lord's sake, says in Acts 20:24, "I consider my life worth nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me..." As a Roman, Paul was familiar with athletic events. He says in I Corinthians 9:24-27, "Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize. Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. Therefore I do not run like a man running aimlessly; I do not fight like a man beating the air. No, I beat my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize."

          Our own success will come when we can say, "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I  have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day -- and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing (II Timothy 4:7-8, NIV).

--Becky Wall

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